Not Every Woman

Not every woman wants to be saved. Not every woman wants a man to come into her life and fix everything. We all don't need a knight in shiny armor to scoop in and sweep her away. Sometimes we just want a man's shoulder to lean on. Sometimes we want a man's ears to listen to what we have to say so we can get things off our chests. Not fix our issues, not fix our problems, not to fix the people we are having issues with. Sometime our issues with other people are really issues with ourselves. Our issues are our issues to get over and talking them out help more than taking action. Action doesn't fix everything. Action doesn't help all the time.

A man can be encouraging, be a listener, be a shoulder. If you are unsure what your woman wants from you, ask her. There is nothing wrong with asking. You cannot read our minds and we cannot read yours. If a woman gets mad that you asked her and says something like you should already know. Remind them you are not a mind reader and vise verse.

Try to be patient and kind. Try to have understanding. If you have to ask questions to understand than do so. Just tell them the questions are for you to better understand what is going on and not to be judgemental. Be very careful not to be judgemental. Always be clam and if your woman wants you to get upset over something with her and your not that is her issue not yours.

Good luck and no subject that you can't talk about. Some subjects are easier to talk about than others. Some subjects needs lots of trust to talk about. If you think your lady is uncomfortable talking about something ask her. Also let her know what subjects are too hard for you to talk about. Also there are some subjects we need a little time to think about before we can talk about them. This happens to men also just let each other know that your know ready to talk a subject.