Not Interested Signs:
Not saying goodbye
Shaking hands goodbye
Giving a girl a half hug
Kiss on the forehead (she will think you think of her only as a friend or a little sister).
Don't call her at all or wait a week or two
Don't try to see her
Might be Interested:
Full hug
Kiss on the cheek
You are Interested in her:
Kiss her on the mouth (or at least try to)
Hold her hand (or at least try to)
Warning:
Be careful if you try to sleep (have sex) with her on the first time hanging out she will you only wanted to have sex with her and nothing else. This includes just making out with her all night.
Also, ignoring her is horrible, if you are not interested and she doesn't get the hint, be a man and tell her. Not knowing hurts more than anything else. There is no need to be a jerk or an ass about it. Be honest an open and just say it.
Please note: if you just want to be friends or friends with benefits, be open and tell her. Otherwise you will confuse her and she won't know what to think.
Also, just because you paid for dinner and/or a movie or the whole date in general. The girl doesn't owe you anything at all. She doesn't owe you a kiss, sex or anything. It was you being nice to her and letting her know there may be a chance you are into her.
If you want to get with a girl and date her or something, don't use code words like: 'I want to get to know you better', she will likely think you just want to be friends. Just tell her you would like date her.
If you want her to know you are interested in her tell her. Talk to her. Say hi when you see her. You don't have to have a full conversation every time you see her. Just say hi and let her know you see her.
FYI:
If you ask a girl out at the last minute don't be hurt or mad if she says no or already has plans. Next time ask earlier.
Also, if you change plans on her at the last minute don't be hurt if she isn't dressed correctly or if she cancels on you. Not all woman are willing to do everything and anything at a drop of a dime.
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